One good look can seduce as easily as a whole “toolbox” of techniques for seducing women. Guys who get distracted by a woman’s body often don’t notice they’ve already lost with her, because she was looking at their eyes first. Learn this powerful eye contact method, and you’ll avoid being caught staring down her blouse!
This technique is really for any situation where you want your eyes to convey the feeling that you are powerful, sincere and focused. Sorry, you can’t just use it for picking up women!
When you look at a person, focus on the area between the eyes (the ‘root’ of the nose), instead of picking one eye to focus on or, worse, shifting from one eye to the other (“shifty eyed”). Be natural and relaxed. Don’t try to “bore” into the persons head with your gaze or stare wide-eyed. Just settle on that spot and relax. Watch the response of the other person. I’ve found that it’s a little unsettling for them at first, but when they see you’re just giving them your full attention, they warm up and respond beautifully.
Speaking to you as a guy who had a lot of trouble (read fear of) looking a beautiful girl in the eye, this one’ll turn that around fast! I started by practicing in a mirror, then moved on to using it whenever I remembered to try it. Now, it’s a habit with everyone I meet. The really amazing thing is the feeling of control and fearlessness you’ll feel as you get used to the positive response from others. Suddenly, that knockout who turned your legs to jelly and your tongue to flypaper is just the type of girl you let prove herself to you – and she loves it!