Picking Up Girls

28 01 2009

Learn How To Pick Up College Girls By Watching Other People

Learning how to pick up college girls takes a bit of practice and you should be prepared for a few rejections. If you live in constant fear of being rejected then that is your biggest problem – it comes with the territory. Watch other people, learn how they pick up college girls and imitate their techniques. You will soon get the hang of it.

Don’t Approach College Girls In A Group

Guys this is not how to pick up college girls or any girls for that matter. You should wait until the girl you are interested in gets up to go to the bar or to the bathroom. If you go over while she is sitting with a group of friends then everyone will be watching, she will feel embarrassed, you will feel embarrassed and it will all end up in disaster! If you approach her when she is on her own then you can actually have a conversation with her. She will be much more likely to chat to you if she is on her own than if she is with a group of people.

Don’t be the drunk guy who hits on everyone

Guys there is nothing more unappealing to most women than a guy who drinks half a keg of beer then stumbles around the party hitting on every girl they see. By all means get drunk but don’t get hammered!! A drink or 3 always helps calm the nerves and gives you a bit of dutch courage, but it’s not going to do you much good if you are slurring your words while proclaiming your love to the entire room.

Ask If You Can Buy Her A Drink

This technique is known the world over and it is a very powerful pick up line when used in the right circumstances. It is like saying “I would like to get you know you” without actually saying it. If she isn’t interested then all she will say is no thankyou. There is nothing wrong with that – nobody gets embarrassed and nobody loses face.

Want To Learn How To Pick Up College Girls?

If you answered yes to the above question then you are in the right place! Just about every single man who goes to college (and even some who don’t) wants to learn how to pick up college girls. The problem is though that they think it will be a piece of cake and in reality it isn’t!!

I have put together a few tips for you to learn how to pick up college girls





Tips On How To Pick Up a Girl

25 01 2009

Be A Good Listener: It always pays to be a good listener. Observe the things she is saying as well as your surroundings. Stop worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. During the conversation, always make a direct eye contact with her. Believe me she will give you leads about what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you want to say next.

Make Her Laugh:Making your woman laugh will do the trick. Laughter attracts women easily and in less time. If you are successful in making her laugh a lot, you have already won the battle.

Utilize What You Have: Most men dwell on what they don’t possess. They feel that they don’t have the charm and seductive attraction some guys have. Sometimes they regret that they don’t have a nice body.But haven’t you seen many men who are good looking but don’t have any girl. Be confident and try to capitalize on the assets that you have!

Be positive: Women do not like men who are pessimists and have a negative approach to life.

Actually nobody like people like that. Hence, it is necessary to have a positive attitude and show it when it comes to picking up a girl.

Don’t Fear Rejection: Most men remain unsuccessful in the task of picking up a girl because they fear rejection. The fear of rejection is the main cause behind the failure.Take every rejection as the next step to success and learn from your mistakes.

Every time you get rejected, you are moving one level up, because once you become comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. So instead of getting hurt, be confident after every rejection. Remember, the guys who get rejected the most are the ones who leave with the most numbers!

Smile: “A smile increases your face value”, and surprisingly it costs nothing. Therefore, especially while approaching any girl, smile constantly.






Get Yourself Together

22 01 2009

You must flirt- Flirting is extremely important if you want to see your conversation go anywhere. You will not be able to make that instant initial connection unless you successfully flirt with her. Make sure you do this early on so that she knows you are not there to be just friends.

Get your body language under control- If you are highly nervous and shaky when trying to approach a woman she would instantly notice and would know that you are nervous. You see this would indicate to her that you are low of self confidence which is an obvious turn off according to most women. Therefore make sure that you maintain a strong body language which shows her that you are very confident.

Don’t open with a boring sentence- Most guys tend to approach women and go- Hey! I am john! How are you doing? You see normally a girl would say I am doing fine and would just turn away. Instead you should try to open using an indirect way for example say this- I am looking to buy a gift for my sister what would you suggest? You see this would instantly get them talking and you will get to chat with them further.





Ultimate Girl Magnet

21 01 2009

It is every guys dream to become the ultimate girl magnet who has no problems picking up any girl he desires at any time of the day. But this is not the reality for most males out there rather it’s the quite opposite of it. There are several guys out there who struggle with even getting a girl to talk to them and even if they do get a girl to talk to them they often struggle maintaining her levels of interest. There are some specific techniques you must be aware of if you want to pick up great looking women. Read on to discover what these techniques are and achieve stunning results…..

Fight your negativity- There is nothing scary in the outside world but the real monster is actually sitting inside you. The moment you kick this scary monster out of your personality you will instantly feel free. The reason why most guys don’t even make that first approach when they witness a good looking girl is due to the fact that they expect the worst and feel they might get rejected right away due to which they don’t even bother trying. Always remember that if it scares you then the only way of finding out what’s going to happen is to try.

There are more than enough women out there- Another reason why men struggle to approach women is because they feel that there are just not enough women who would talk to them out there which is completely false. There are more than enough women out there who would be more than happy to talk to you as long as you open yourself up to them and that would never happen if you don’t make that first move.

Be interesting and they will be interested- Yes! It’s as simple as this. As long as you develop a strong interesting personality women will always be interested in you. And this all really starts by thinking that you are really interesting. As long as you feel that you are not up to the mark it will reflect on your personality and women will treat you the way you treat yourself.








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